Facts:
Ray Perez
is a doctor practicing in Cebu while Nerissa, his wife, (petitioner)
is a registered nurse. After
six miscarriages, two operations and a high-risk pregnancy, Nerissa finally
gave birth to Ray Perez II in New
York on July
20, 1992 . Ray stayed with her in the U.S. twice
and took care of her when she became pregnant. Unlike his wife, however, he had only
a tourist visa and was not employed.
On January
17, 1993 , the couple and their baby arrived in Cebu . After a few weeks, only Nerissa
returned to the U.S. She alleged that they came home only
for a five-week vacation and that they all had round-trip tickets. However, her husband stayed behind to
take care of his sick mother and promised to follow her with the baby. According to Ray, they had agreed to
reside permanently in the Philippines but
once Nerissa was in New
York , she changed her mind and continued working. She was supposed to come back
immediately after winding up her affairs there.
When Nerissa came home a few days before Ray II’s first
birthday, the couple was no longer on good terms. They had quarrels. Nerissa did not
want to live near her in-laws and rely solely on her husband’s meager income of
P5,000.00. On the other hand, Ray wanted to stay here, where he could raise his
son even as he practiced his profession. He maintained that it would not be
difficult to live here since they have their own home and a car. Despite mediation by the priest, the
couple failed to reconcile.
Nerissa filed a petition to surrender the custody of their
son to her.
The trial court issued
an Order awarding custody to Nerissa citing the second paragraph of Article 213
of the Family Code which provides that no child under seven years of age shall
be separated from the mother, unless the court finds compelling reasons to
order otherwise.
Upon appeal by Ray Perez, the Court of Appeals reversed the
trial court’s order and held that granting custody to the boy’s father would be
for the child’s best interest and welfare.
Issue:
Who should have rightful
custody of a child?
Held:
Nerissa. Aside from Article
213 of the Family Code, the Revised Rules of Court also contains a similar
provision. Rule 99, Section 6 (Adoption and Custody of Minors) provides:
“SEC. 6. Proceedings as to child whose parents are
separated. Appeal. - When husband and wife are divorced or living separately
and apart from each other, and the questions as to the care, custody, and
control of a child or children of their marriage is brought before a Court of
First Instance by petition or as an incident to any other proceeding, the
court, upon hearing the testimony as may be pertinent, shall award the care,
custody, and control of each such child as will be for its best interest,
permitting the child to choose which parent it prefers to live with if it be
over ten years of age, unless the parent chosen be unfit to take charge of the
child by reason of moral depravity, habitual drunkenness, incapacity, or
poverty x x x. No child under
seven years of age shall be separated from its mother, unless the court finds
there are compelling reasons therefor.” (Italics
supplied)
The provisions of law
quoted above clearly mandate that a child under seven years of age shall not be
separated from his mother unless the court finds compelling reasons to order
otherwise. The use of the
word “shall” in Article 213 of the Family Code and Rule 99, Section 6 of the
Revised Rules of Court connotes a mandatory character.
The general rule that a child under seven years of age shall
not be separated from his mother finds its reason in
the basic need of a child for his mother’s loving care. Only the most compelling of reasons
shall justify the court’s awarding the custody of such a child to someone other
than his mother, such as her unfitness to exercise sole parental authority. In
the past the following grounds have been considered ample justification to
deprive a mother of custody and parental authority: neglect, abandonment, unemployment
and immorality, habitual drunkenness, drug addiction, maltreatment of the
child, insanity and being sick with a communicable disease.
It has long been settled
that in custody cases, the foremost consideration is always
the welfare and best interest of the child. In fact, no less than an
international instrument, the Convention on the Rights of the Child provides:
“In all actions concerning children, whether undertaken by public or private
social welfare institutions, courts of law, administrative authorities or
legislative bodies, the best interests of the child shall be a primary
consideration.
In the case, financial
capacity is not a determinative factor inasmuch as both parties have
demonstrated that they have ample means. Nerissa’s present work schedule is not
so unmanageable as to deprive her of quality time with her son. Quite a number of working mothers who
are away from home for longer periods of time are still able to raise a family
well, applying time management principles judiciously. Also, delegating child
care temporarily to qualified persons who run day-care centers does not detract
from being a good mother, as long as the latter exercises supervision, for even
in our culture, children are often brought up by housemaids under the eagle
eyes of the mother.
Although Ray’s is a general practitioner, the
records show that he maintains a clinic, works for several companies on
retainer basis and teaches part-time. He cannot possibly give the love and care
that a mother gives to his child.
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